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    <subtitle>Time is free, but priceless.</subtitle>  
    
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        <title>EGRET, NOT SHY!</title>   
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<p>J and I were driving from breakfast to a small nature park on Kiawah island in South Carolina last week. We were almost to the gate when we realized we didn&#39;t have sunscreen, binoculars or anything else.</p>
<p>We turned the car around to head back to the hotel, when we drove by this great egret just hanging around a bridge. We were able to observe him amazingly close from our car window. J took these photos of him.</p>
<p>&#160;</p>
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<p>Great egrets are large herons found all over the world. Hunters in the late 1800s and early 1900s killed off 95 percent of the population in North America to use their feathers for clothing. Great egrets were almost extinct when two elderly women decided they wanted to protect the species,&#160;but women were not allowed to vote at the time. So they enlisted the help of a politician, who formed an organization with them and made it illegal to hunt these birds.Their population recovered nicely.This organization is now known as the Audubon Society.</p>
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<p>The oldest great egret on record was 23 years old. These birds are not endangered, but are highly vulnerable to loss of their wetland habitat.</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Fab night out</title>   
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        <p>So we went out with my mate M and the Dr and had a really good night out.&#160; I made a mistake of ordering duck at the restaurant which is apparently their signature dish....not too impressive even though the starter was to die for...Ah well.&#160; Never mind.&#160; And 3 dieters at the table shamed me into not having a pud.&#160;Calories saved there then!.</p>
<p>The guys got on really well.&#160; We had all lived in Atlanta at the same time, without knowing it - so we were talking about the different way of life out there....</p>
<p>Went for a the dressy jeans look so it was smart but Cas.</p>
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<p>They had also stayed at our place up in the mountains so we were talknig about that too.&#160; There was much talk referring to this statue we have there:</p>
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<p>...which was quite funny as despite us having had this for a good 5 years I don&#39;t think we had ever actually thought about it as much as the good Dr had....from his 2 nights stay.&#160; A lot of medical conditions and sex were discussed regarding this......Hubby thought he was taking the Piss but he was actually giving us a serious medical explanation - it was really very funny.</p>
<p>Hope we can go out with them again soon.&#160; I think they were worried we&#39;d be dead uptight just &#39;cos we don&#39;t drink......and I think a lot of people think they can&#39;t acutally drink around us - which is also not the case either. (it&#39;s not like we&#39;re in recovery)</p>
<p>But feeling very tired today - that&#39;s what you get for going out on a &#39;school night&#39; and the milkman fitness freak waking you up at 5am.............</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>And so it begins</title>   
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        <published>2008-07-23T17:29:55Z</published>
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        <p>Of course they came in with a contract that would be best-case for them.</p><p>Their initial offer is is almost 10K less than our list price,
contingent on the sale of some property they have, and taking
possession end of September.&#160; Our agent is finding out if they HAVE to
sell that property for financing.&#160; We won&#39;t know that until tomorrow.</p><p>And so we wait some more.&#160; We plan to counter, but just not sure with what.&#160; The price they offered is too low, so that will definitely be countered at a minimum.&#160; Not sure we can accept a contingency contract either, as that would affect our own search.</p><p>
The other couple aren&#39;t ready yet - are still looking - but they do like our house.</p><p>Broker&#39;s Open tomorrow, so that could drum up some interest too.</p><p>And so it begins...<br /> </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Vox Hunt: Recent Purchase(s)</title>   
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<p><strong>Vox Hunt: Recent Purchase</strong></p>
<p>Show us the last thing you bought. </p></blockquote>
<p> I&#39;ve been on a bit of a buying binge <em>(being home alone will often call for some retail therapy</em>), so here are the last few things that have come home with me.</p>

    
    
    
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        <title>Thoughts on Life and Aging</title>   
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        <div class="feedContent" style="visibility: visible;"><p>A penny saved is a government oversight.</p>

<p>The older you get, the tougher it is to lose weight, because by then
your body and your fat have gotten to be really good friends.</p>
<p>The easiest way to find something lost around the house is to buy a replacement.</p>
<p>He who hesitates is probably right.</p>
<p>Did you ever notice: The Roman Numerals for forty (40) are ‘ XL.’</p>
<p>If you think there is good in everybody, you haven’t met everybody.</p>
<p>If you can smile when things go wrong, you have someone in mind to blame.</p>

<p>The sole purpose of a child’s middle name is so he can tell when he’s really in trouble..</p>
<p>Did you ever notice: When you put the 2 words ‘The’ and ‘IRS’ together it spells ‘Theirs.’</p>
<p>Aging: Eventually you will reach a point when you stop lying about your age and start bragging about it.</p>

<p>Some people try to turn back their odometers. Not me, I want people
to know ‘why’ I look this way. I’ve traveled a long way and some of the
roads weren’t paved.</p>
<p>When you are dissatisfied and would like to go back to youth, think of Algebra.</p>

<p>One of the many things no one tells you about aging is that it is such a nice change from being young.</p>

<p>First you forget names, then you forget faces. Then you forget to
pull up your zipper. It’s worse when you forget to pull it down.</p>
<p>Long ago when men cursed and beat the ground with sticks, it was called witchcraft. Today, it’s called golf…</p></div>    <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Manipulation</title>   
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        <p>Driving past Sam&#39;s Club yesterday.<div><br /></div><div>Out of the corner of my eye I saw something that nearly stopped me dead in my tracks.</div><div><br /></div><div>The price of gas was at $3.99.</div><div><br /></div><div>I rejoiced.</div><div><br /></div><div>And then, using my outside voice, I articulated my intense frustration at being so easily manipulated that four-dollar per gallon gas feels like a bargain!!!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>RG...out!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Do You Remember The First Time? :: How Much About Last Night Do You Remember? - Calliope No. 8</title>   
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        <title>Today&#39;s BSing</title>   
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        <p>1. Self Reminder!!!<br />Do NOT get the door unless you expect someone. You end up saying you&#39;re almost an atheist to Evangelists. When I said that, this guy&#39;s face looked like as if he stepped on some shit.</p><p>2. Being liked doesn&#39;t feel comfortable to me, yet. - FYI, I&#39;m not having PMS now.<br />Sometimes I feel really bad for my friends in general. <br />They are all wonderful. They all make me want to be a better person. <br />They all have at least one aspect that inspires me. <br />When I look at myself, I have nothing. Nothing to help them. They never ask me anything. <br />I have nothing to offer. <br />I just started dating with someone. Well, at least that&#39;s what I think.<br />All of a sudden, it struck me that I am still such an unstable person. Sometimes even flaky. Making same kinds of stupid mistakes just way too often. <br />Instead of feeling decent about myself, I find my flaws everyday.<br />Being liked makes me uncomfortable. </p>    <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Picture Meme: Stimulating</title>   
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1. <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/brussell/2294675874/">lightening</a><br />2. <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/81256999@N00/301477554/">The Marsh</a><br />3. <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/matthewa/1806461768/">Pecan Pie</a><br />4. <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/neversaydie/328100396/">Music</a> <br />5. <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/aloha_lavina/356561454/">and I love the rain</a><br />6. <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/jodimckee/1108485077/">Uneventful but beautiful</a><br /> <div><br /></div></p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>The Fat Story</title>   
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        <p>I was stumbling around the internets last night before heading off to
the sack and decided to catch up on the hood&#39;s blogging day. So I read <a href="http://cupcate.vox.com/library/post/and-you-only-have-two-weeks-to-live-fatty.html">CupCate&#39;s Blog</a> and was horrified but also reminded of something. </p><p>When I was 14 I was cast as Jo March in the school production of <em>Little Women.</em>
I was ecstatic. But because our school was so freaking cheap, we had to
supply our costumes. While one would think the south would have an
abundance of hoop skirted attire for young ladies to adorn, I found it
nearly impossible to find anything that would work. After checking out
all the costume shops in a 50 mile radius, the mother and I started
checking the local second hand shops. At stop number two, I was
standing in a dressing room, attempting to squeeze my ass into a dress
two sizes too small when this hagged looking bitty popped her head in
and said, &quot;Oh dear, that will never do.&quot; I laughed and was about to
tell her, &quot;I know. It&#39;s a size four but I thought I could get fabric
sewn into the sides or at the zipper and make it work&quot; when she then
said, &quot;You are a thick one aren&#39;t you?&quot;</p><p>A <em>WHAT?!?!</em></p><p>She
ducked her head back out and three minutes later reappeared with what
seemed to be old plantation drapes. Needless to say, I told her there
was no way those were going to work. She smiled and said, &quot;Dear it&#39;s
always better to take it in rather than have to let it out. Having a
birthin&#39; body is nothing to be ashamed of.&quot;</p><p><em>Listen here you old hag, I will kill you.</em></p><p>At
the age of 14, I was not a size nothing like some of my friends. But I
was an athlete and I was and had been a ballerina since the age of 7.
Weighing 120 wasn&#39;t something I&#39;d ever been too concerned about.
Suddenly my weight was all I could think about.
</p><p>
Cereal and celery sticks became my diet. I went from being that girl
that could scarf down half a pizza and then dance it off to that girl
who ate stuff the size of my palm for a meal and then sluggishly went
through the routine.&#160; I started getting terrible cramps in my legs and
stomach. No one told me it wasn&#39;t because of my weight but the amount I
was eating. No one told me it was because I was burning away muscle
rather than fat. <em>I had no fat to burn.
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</em><p>I struggled with my &quot;fatness&quot; for nearly a year before someone wised me up. 
</p><p>
I look back on that day now as a grown woman and if I could find that old lady I&#39;d shove a hot poker up her ass.
</p><p>
As you know, I have a six year old. She came home from kindergarten last year and told me she was fat. I was <em>horrified</em>.
When I asked her why, she said it was because her jeans felt too tight.
Try explaining to a six year old that the reason her clothes feel too
tight isn&#39;t because she&#39;s fat but is because they are growing like they
should. She was in a size five at the time and it was time to put her
in a 6x. 
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<p><em>Why is my six year old concerned with her weight?!?!</em> Her most
important concern should be what color to finger paint with next or how
to spell her last name. She shouldn&#39;t be concerned with getting her
tushie into a pair of jeans. </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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